I am writing after almost 6 years.
Somebody rightly said, we can choose our friends but not our family. And also, somebody else also said that you became the same person as the company you keep. So we can choose our company at work, social circle but can't do the same when it comes to family.
(Thinking) What to do in that case. I think we try and become a good company for others so one day they become what we are and strictly refrain to become what they are by playing tit for tat tactics or by showing somebody down.
I know its easier said than done. Many things have to play a role here like your birth, brought up, friends, studies, your birth qualities and above all your parents. I think a child learn by his parents the most more than teachers at school. I will give you a few example if a Dad at home feels comfortable in insulting or scolding mom at home then the kids will also start taking mom very lightly and will misbehave. And, if parents try to hide their mistakes by just laughing off at them; kids will also acquire the same habit. If parents switch on the TV, check whatsapp or facebook each time they return to home eventually their kids will also do the same and it won't change until parents try to lead by example.
In our everyday life we ignore many aspects of human behavior and specially don't observe them. I believe observing people will help us in understanding them better and intern being a good human being.
People will come, people will go,
No one is here forever though,
the one who is meant to be with you,
will stay till the end through,
no matter if you are a damn tough bullet to chew,
stay clam and have yourself a brew.
Somebody rightly said, we can choose our friends but not our family. And also, somebody else also said that you became the same person as the company you keep. So we can choose our company at work, social circle but can't do the same when it comes to family.
(Thinking) What to do in that case. I think we try and become a good company for others so one day they become what we are and strictly refrain to become what they are by playing tit for tat tactics or by showing somebody down.
I know its easier said than done. Many things have to play a role here like your birth, brought up, friends, studies, your birth qualities and above all your parents. I think a child learn by his parents the most more than teachers at school. I will give you a few example if a Dad at home feels comfortable in insulting or scolding mom at home then the kids will also start taking mom very lightly and will misbehave. And, if parents try to hide their mistakes by just laughing off at them; kids will also acquire the same habit. If parents switch on the TV, check whatsapp or facebook each time they return to home eventually their kids will also do the same and it won't change until parents try to lead by example.
In our everyday life we ignore many aspects of human behavior and specially don't observe them. I believe observing people will help us in understanding them better and intern being a good human being.
People will come, people will go,
No one is here forever though,
the one who is meant to be with you,
will stay till the end through,
no matter if you are a damn tough bullet to chew,
stay clam and have yourself a brew.
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